Dear Exec Cmte, email notice expert, (and web master)
After reporting to the parish Board last night, some further thoughts occurred
to me. Starting with the size of the faithful attendees at the DOT meetings
v. the number of things that need to be done in the church. Not a new issue,
by far. More on that in a minute.
THERE WILL BE ANOTHER SHORT BROWN BAG LUNCH/CLEAN UP AND MARCHING SOCIETY
MEETING
Saturday, March 24 is my first choice. I will check with Fr M if there is an
Annunciation liturgy that morning.
1. I confess to dropping the ball regarding total preparation for the big
event last Sunday. Please forgive me. Although the post vespers meal went
well, thanks to an enthusiastic parish response, and a wonder of a clean up
crew, the dusting of the church floor before that glorious Vesper service was
left to one hard worker, who probably had other things to do...
Ken Naff said he would locate the info we need to get those wide dust mops
that will make it easier to do the job, and with two of them on hand, a
partner-in-work can cut the job in half for anyone clever enough to realize
the floor needs a touch up - not me, but someone who notices those things

If you care to browse the info re the women's group, you will note some
helpful info, useful in any parish, and worth taking a closer look - since OUR
PARISH is growing so quickly.
For example, the link for the tasks of the women's group encompasses a long
list of items, nearly all of which are dealt with in our parish by a
particular person, who usually asks for help, informally. It wouldn't be hard
to mentally substitute those names - you know them as well as I. The
difference is, on that web site they are "officially" named as responsible.
The jobs are defined. They maintain a notebook that lists these
responsibilities and describes in detail what is expected, in order to
complete that task.
hmmmmmmm. What a concept

Most of the "positions" in the list are filled by "appointees" in our parish,
not by elected individuals. No problem, but is anyone in training to assist,
to learn how, to fill in, to (ouch) replace such a person? [Rhetorical
queston: no response required.]
In the St John parish the vice pres is "in training" to replace the Pres.
Well, Yazmin, I wouldn't do that to you, since we promised not to at the time
you accepted the post. But it is not a bad idea for the future, and it has
been discussed as a possibility in the past. Any ideas on how that could
work? For example, when I was vp, I doubled for the person who presented the
"devotional minute". It was not then a requirement that the vp become pres
when the latter departed.
3. It seems to me that the women who hang out and enjoy each others company,
are probably more likely to pull together to do the necessary work when
required. The concept that we can "fellowship WHILE we work" is one I don't
see happening. I think maybe that is the cart before the horse. - Maybe that
is just my view - not being especially social myself, it is a view that is
just a bit hazy right now.
What do you think of more emphasis on getting together as women in the church,
so that the tasks can be the bass viols to that symphony, instead of the
violins. Any thoughts on that?
What are, in fact, the social times for the women in our parish:
- weekly coffee after liturgy (along with visitors, husbands, kids, etc)
- quarterly large party organized by Sylvia (very popular)
- monthly Saturday night (post vespers?) get together (pot luck) at
Jessica's
- monthly Tabitha Circle (we DO actually work, but it is very chatty
-usually no food)
- occasional outing to a museum or cultural event organized by Maureen
(not for quite a while) sometimes with a meal at a restaurant attached
- annual Cookie event connected to a DOT meeting in January. (much
better response in previous years)
Do you think this meets the fellowship needs of the women in this parish?
This is soooo not my area of expertise, so any input or any idea of who might
have some good ideas would be welcome.
I would say: "let's cover this at the next meeting", but if the attendance
remains light, the opportunity for input is not getting accomplished. Maybe
like the British Parliament, the real work needs to be done outside the formal
presentation. OR we could actually have a SHORT meeting on a Sunday...as Exec
Committee, with invitaion open to any interested party that has a free minute
or two. ya think??
Suggestions, please!! We all love out parish, and want to see it as a
comfortable, well run home away from home, but this does take some
planning...and getting that sand out of life's gears...
isabel
mme prez